小八哥照顧癱瘓妻子七年 喪偶後 聰明的小八哥拒絕再婚
小八哥是一個好男人，他今年70歲，退休以前是一個普通的工人，在他退休那年，他的老伴八嫂不幸腦梗癱床上了，他無怨無悔的照顧了妻子七年。
小八哥和妻子都是一家國企的普通工人，兩人沒有轟轟烈烈的愛情，是經人介紹結婚的，兩人要說感情也沒有多深，但小八哥和妻子都是老老實實的人，兩人都沒有什麼壞毛病，對家庭也十分負責，兩人該上班，上班，該做家務做家務，該養育孩子養育孩子，兩人都相互尊重對方，雖然工資不高，但日子還是過得有滋有味，孩子也爭氣，兒子大學畢業就考上了當地的教師編制。雖然兒子還沒有找物件，但小八哥和小八嫂省吃儉用的存錢幫兒子買了套房子，兩人幫兒子付了房子的首付，餘下的貸款，每月用兒子的住房公積金還貸。一家人也過得很幸福。
小八嫂五十歲退了休，退休以後，小八嫂還在外面打工，說為了多掙點錢將來給兒子討媳婦用。在小八哥退休那年，八嫂卻因腦梗癱瘓了，小八哥和兒子兩人共同照顧妻子。兒子白天要上班，八哥一個人就全天候地照顧妻子。兒子晚上下班就搭把手。小八哥無怨無悔地照顧了妻子七年。小八哥六十七歲那年，小八嫂走了。小八哥很難過，但過了一段時間，他慢慢從喪妻的痛苦中走了出來，他每天除了給兒子煮飯以外，他就去公園跟人學練太極拳。每天退休生活也過得有滋有味。
小八哥，生活能力很強，他自己能做飯給自己和兒子吃，他每天自己買菜，自己做飯，自己一個人去公園找他的拳友們學練拳，他的生活很充實。2020年，他兒子終於找到了合適的物件，兒媳婦也不貪心，彩禮要得很少，就要了六萬六，他終於完成了幫兒子討媳婦的任務，現在兒子和兒媳婦搬到他們自己的房子去住了，就八哥一個人單獨住在老房子裡，他兒子叫他去同住，他也不去。有好心人勸他再找一個老伴，他都拒絕了，他說，他照顧妻子七年，照顧怕了。70歲的人了，不想找了，這個歲數的男女，身體多多少少都有點不好了，找一個老伴是負擔，還是一個人過好點，再婚了，麻煩事太多了。如果運氣不好，找著個身體不好的，又出點什麼差錯，還要照顧別人，他怕了，不想找了。
今年一月份小八哥的兒媳婦要生孩子了，小八哥很好，他拿了4萬元錢給兒媳婦，他說，我一個老公公也不方便來照顧，你拿著這4萬元錢去月子中心做月子吧。他兒媳婦很高興，但沒有去月子中心坐月子，兒媳婦叫自己媽媽來照顧的月子，小八哥，很自覺，每天負責給兒子兒媳婦買菜，去了也不多話，該做飯做飯，該哄孫子哄孫子，兒媳婦出了月子，兒媳婦媽媽回自己家去了，小八哥還是早去晚來的去兒子家幫兒媳婦，幫兒媳婦買買菜，做做飯，替兒媳婦看孩子。晚上兒子下班回來，他就回自己家了，兒子勸他不要早晚來回跑了，小八哥說，不要住在一起，現在兒媳婦休產假，他來幫幫，等 兒媳婦產假滿了上班的時候，大家共同出錢請個保姆，他來監視保姆，共同一起把孩子帶大。小八哥，早去晚來的幫兒子，別人說為何不住兒子家，小八哥說，住在一起就會事多，早去晚來的，大家保持點距離，相反還親，我覺得小八哥，很理智，不找老伴也是對的，他幫兒子兒媳卻不住兒子家也是對的，人與人之間相互幫襯是對的，因為他對兒子兒媳婦也不錯，他的兒媳婦對他也很好，把他當自己的親生父親一樣來孝順。人與人是相互的，老的想著小的，小的也想著老的，這樣的家庭才算是真正的一個家庭。挺好的小八哥。我為他點贊。我支援小八哥。
小八哥照顧癱瘓妻子七年 喪偶後 聰明的小八哥拒絕再婚
The clever starling refused to remarry after taking care of his paralyzed wife for seven years
小八哥是一個好男人，他今年70歲，退休以前是一個普通的工人，在他退休那年，他的老伴八嫂不幸腦梗癱床上了，他無怨無悔的照顧了妻子七年。
Little starling is a good man. He is 70 years old. He was an ordinary worker before retirement. In the year of his retirement, his wife's eighth sister-in-law unfortunately had cerebral infarction paralysis in bed. He took care of his wife for seven years without complaint or regret.
小八哥和妻子都是一家國企的普通工人，兩人沒有轟轟烈烈的愛情，是經人介紹結婚的，兩人要說感情也沒有多深，但小八哥和妻子都是老老實實的人，兩人都沒有什麼壞毛病，對家庭也十分負責，兩人該上班，上班，該做家務做家務，該養育孩子養育孩子，兩人都相互尊重對方，雖然工資不高，但日子還是過得有滋有味，孩子也爭氣，兒子大學畢業就考上了當地的教師編制。雖然兒子還沒有找物件，但小八哥和小八嫂省吃儉用的存錢幫兒子買了套房子，兩人幫兒子付了房子的首付，餘下的貸款，每月用兒子的住房公積金還貸。一家人也過得很幸福。
Both starling and his wife are ordinary workers in a state-owned enterprise. They have no vigorous love and are introduced to marriage. They don't have much deep feelings, but starling and his wife are honest people. They have no bad problems and are very responsible for their families. They should go to work, do housework, raise children and raise children, Both of them respect each other. Although their salary is not high, they still live a happy life, and their children are also striving. Their son was admitted to the local teacher establishment after graduating from university. Although the son hasn't found a partner yet, the little starling and the little eight sister-in-law saved money to help the son buy a house. They helped the son pay the down payment of the house and repay the rest of the loan with the son's housing provident fund every month. The family is also very happy.
小八嫂五十歲退了休，退休以後，小八嫂還在外面打工，說為了多掙點錢將來給兒子討媳婦用。在小八哥退休那年，八嫂卻因腦梗癱瘓了，小八哥和兒子兩人共同照顧妻子。兒子白天要上班，八哥一個人就全天候地照顧妻子。兒子晚上下班就搭把手。小八哥無怨無悔地照顧了妻子七年。小八哥六十七歲那年，小八嫂走了。小八哥很難過，但過了一段時間，他慢慢從喪妻的痛苦中走了出來，他每天除了給兒子煮飯以外，他就去公園跟人學練太極拳。每天退休生活也過得有滋有味。
Little eight sister-in-law retired at the age of 50. After retirement, little eight sister-in-law still worked outside. She said that in order to earn more money, she would ask her son for a daughter-in-law in the future. In the year of little Starling's retirement, eight sister-in-law was paralyzed by cerebral infarction. Little starling and his son took care of his wife together. My son has to work during the day, and starlings take care of his wife all day. My son helps me when he gets off work at night. Little starling took care of his wife for seven years without complaint or regret. When little starling was 67, little sister-in-law left. Little starling was very sad, but after a period of time, he slowly came out of the pain of losing his wife. Every day, in addition to cooking for his son, he went to the park to learn and practice Taijiquan with others. Retirement life is also enjoyable every day.
小八哥，生活能力很強，他自己能做飯給自己和兒子吃，他每天自己買菜，自己做飯，自己一個人去公園找他的拳友們學練拳，他的生活很充實。2020年，他兒子終於找到了合適的物件，兒媳婦也不貪心，彩禮要得很少，就要了六萬六，他終於完成了幫兒子討媳婦的任務，現在兒子和兒媳婦搬到他們自己的房子去住了，就八哥一個人單獨住在老房子裡，他兒子叫他去同住，他也不去。有好心人勸他再找一個老伴，他都拒絕了，他說，他照顧妻子七年，照顧怕了。70歲的人了，不想找了，這個歲數的男女，身體多多少少都有點不好了，找一個老伴是負擔，還是一個人過好點，再婚了，麻煩事太多了。如果運氣不好，找著個身體不好的，又出點什麼差錯，還要照顧別人，他怕了，不想找了。
Little starling has a strong ability to live. He can cook for himself and his son. He buys vegetables and cooks by himself every day. He goes to the park alone to learn boxing from his boxing friends. His life is very fulfilling. In 2020, his son finally found a suitable partner, and his daughter-in-law was not greedy. He asked for a small bride price of 66000. He finally completed the task of helping his son get a daughter-in-law. Now his son and daughter-in-law have moved to their own house. Starling lives alone in the old house. His son asked him to live with him, but he won't go either. Some kind-hearted people advised him to find another wife, but he refused. He said he was afraid to take care of his wife for seven years. 70 year old people, do not want to find, this age of men and women, the body is more or less a little bad, looking for an old wife is a burden, or a better person, remarried, there are too many troubles. If you have bad luck and find someone who is in poor health and make some mistakes, you have to take care of others. He is afraid and doesn't want to find it.
今年一月份小八哥的兒媳婦要生孩子了，小八哥很好，他拿了4萬元錢給兒媳婦，他說，我一個老公公也不方便來照顧，你拿著這4萬元錢去月子中心做月子吧。他兒媳婦很高興，但沒有去月子中心坐月子，兒媳婦叫自己媽媽來照顧的月子，小八哥，很自覺，每天負責給兒子兒媳婦買菜，去了也不多話，該做飯做飯，該哄孫子哄孫子，兒媳婦出了月子，兒媳婦媽媽回自己家去了，小八哥還是早去晚來的去兒子家幫兒媳婦，幫兒媳婦買買菜，做做飯，替兒媳婦看孩子。晚上兒子下班回來，他就回自己家了，兒子勸他不要早晚來回跑了，小八哥說，不要住在一起，現在兒媳婦休產假，他來幫幫，等 兒媳婦產假滿了上班的時候，大家共同出錢請個保姆，他來監視保姆，共同一起把孩子帶大。小八哥，早去晚來的幫兒子，別人說為何不住兒子家，小八哥說，住在一起就會事多，早去晚來的，大家保持點距離，相反還親，我覺得小八哥，很理智，不找老伴也是對的，他幫兒子兒媳卻不住兒子家也是對的，人與人之間相互幫襯是對的，因為他對兒子兒媳婦也不錯，他的兒媳婦對他也很好，把他當自己的親生父親一樣來孝順。人與人是相互的，老得想著小的，小的也想著老的，這樣的家庭才算是真正的一個家庭。挺好的小八哥。我為他點贊。我支援小八哥。
In January this year, little Starling's daughter-in-law was going to have a baby. Little starling was very good. He took 40000 yuan to his daughter-in-law. He said, it's not convenient for my husband to take care of me. Take this 40000 yuan to the confinement center for confinement. His daughter-in-law was very happy, but she didn't go to the confinement center to have a confinement. The daughter-in-law asked her mother to take care of her. Little starling was very conscious. She was responsible for buying vegetables for her son and daughter-in-law every day. She didn't talk much when she went. It was time to cook and coax her grandchildren. When the daughter-in-law was out of confinement, the mother-in-law went back to her own house. Little starling still went to her son's house early and came late to help her daughter-in-law, Help the daughter-in-law buy vegetables, cook and look after the children for the daughter-in-law. In the evening, when his son came back from work, he went back to his home. His son advised him not to run back and forth sooner or later. Little starling said, don't live together. Now his daughter-in-law is on maternity leave, he will help. When the daughter-in-law's maternity leave is over, we will pay for a nanny together. He will monitor Baum and bring up the child together. Little starling, who goes early and comes late to help his son, others say why he doesn't live at his son's house. Little starling says that living together will make a lot of things. If you go early and come late, you should keep a distance. On the contrary, you should kiss. I think little starling is very rational and it's right not to find his wife. It's also right that he helps his son's daughter-in-law but doesn't live at his son's house. It's right for people to help each other, Because he is also good to his son and daughter-in-law, and his daughter-in-law is also good to him. He treats him as his own father. People are mutual, the old think of the small, the small also think of the old, such a family is a real family. Good little starling. I like him. I support starling.
- 喪偶 bereft of one's spouse
- 再婚 remarry ; marry again ; deuterogamy ; digamy
- 普通工人 【經】common laborer
- 轟轟烈烈 with vigour and vitality ; on a grand and spectacular scale ; vigorous ; dynamic
- 老老實實 behave oneself ; play no tricks ; honestly and sincerely ; conscientiously
- 沒有什麼 nothing the matter ; nothing wrong
- 做家務 do housework ; Doing housework ; keep house
- 養育 bring up ; rear ; raising ; breeding
